
So we started sorting & piling them when an old man passed by & sparked a conversation with, "Those are not good firewood at all." My husband & I laughed & said we obviously know that. Then he informed us that our neighbor, the one across, just passed away recently. I truly felt sad hearing it. That explains her closed windows for a couple of days now. She was 90. I've seen her a lot of times from our kitchen window since we moved in just 2 months ago. She would sit on her chair under the sun, or feed her black cat & the old man did say she had a turtle in the garden. Eversince my dad passed away, I don't feel the same way about death as I used to.
Then I twinged remembering the time we moved to Carry le Rouet 7 years ago. A couple of months after moving in, our neighbor's husband passed away. He was about 50-60+ looking at his widow. I remember it clearly because we heard about it after the funeral & we didn't know how to deal with it since we really just moved in. It's a strange & creepy coincidence but mostly we get the old people as neighbors. It's really not a good way to move in a new place like this, is it? We'll be moving again in a year or two. Who wants to be our neighbors?
Ok, no smarty pants with scary ideas. I won't be able to look out my kitchen window for now.
Then I twinged remembering the time we moved to Carry le Rouet 7 years ago. A couple of months after moving in, our neighbor's husband passed away. He was about 50-60+ looking at his widow. I remember it clearly because we heard about it after the funeral & we didn't know how to deal with it since we really just moved in. It's a strange & creepy coincidence but mostly we get the old people as neighbors. It's really not a good way to move in a new place like this, is it? We'll be moving again in a year or two. Who wants to be our neighbors?
Ok, no smarty pants with scary ideas. I won't be able to look out my kitchen window for now.
After a whole day of waiting & traveling, we reached the cold, gray & wet Paris at 9.30pm. Last week was a week of meeting old friends. One from a 2 year Qatari adventure & the other two from way back Sesame Street, Voltes V & Sweet Dreams books.
When friends go way back to more than 20 years, you can't help telling each other that you all haven't changed. For a moment there, about 10 years ago to be exact, I almost believed that people do change in time, in a different environment. But being with old friends, the ones you grew up with, old habits just come out begging for freedom. The teasing, the old & new stories & that familiar comfort are the rewards of a great friendship. No matter how old you are, or where you are, you can never really so much change that essence that is you. One week with old friends brought our home with them to Paris.
Although all of us needed a whole weekend of recuperation from four nights of drinking & sleeping at 3am then waking up at 9, the best map when you're a little lost is to reconnect with old friends.
Thanks, mes amies, I needed that piece of home.
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